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please
milo kotak
taknak milo
bancuh"
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sekian
Tanda-tanda Hendak Bersalin
PENGALAMAN sakit bersalin berbeza-beza bagi setiap wanita. Ada yang merasakan seperti perut memulas hendak membuang air besar, sakit belakang, perut seperti akan pecah dan seumpamanya.
Bermula seawal 28 minggu usia kandungan, wanita akan mula mengalami pengecutan rahim yang normal secara fisiologi, ia dinamakan pengecutan rahim Braxton-Hicks.
Pengecutan rahim ini berlaku jarang-jarang, sekitar setiap 30 minit dan mengambil tempoh beberapa saat saja serta tidak menyakitkan. Ini berbeza dengan pengecutan rahim bersalin yang dialami setiap 15 minit namun kemudiannya menjadi lebih kerap (setiap lima atau tiga minit), setiap satu pula semakin panjang tempohnya (sehingga 45 saat) dan disertai dengan kesakitan.
Tempoh ini bolehlah dikira secara meletakkan tapak tangan pada puncak rahim untuk mengesan pengecutan rahim itu yang sentiasa datang dan menghilang.
Berjumpalah dengan doktor untuk mengesan punca kesakitan yang anda alami. Tanda hampir bersalin adalah seperti berikut:
Namun, ia lebih bergantung kepada keputusan anda setelah mendapat pandangan doktor anda.
Sumber: Harian Metr0
- Perut menjadi ringan sekitar dua minggu sebelum kelahiran kerana kepala bayi sudah pun ‘turun’ ke dalam kawasan rangka tulang pelvis.
- Keluar lendir pekat seperti gam yang lekang dari laluan pintu rahim apabila pintu rahim mula menipis.
- Pengecutan otot rahim yang semakin kerap dan untuk tempoh yang lama.
- Keluar lendir bercampur darah apabila pintu rahim mula membuka.
Anda juga boleh mempelajari cara mengesan pengecutan otot rahim. Ia juga dapat dilihat dalam carta cardio-tocograph atau CTG yang mencatat pola aktiviti jantung bayi serta pengecutan otot rahim.
Ia dilakukan secara melekapkan dua alat berbentuk cakera tebal ke atas puncak rahim dan pada kawasan jantung bayi, alat ini dilekapkan dengan bantuan tali pinggang bergetah dan dibiarkan selama kira-kira 20 minit.
Ujian air kencing juga mungkin dilakukan untuk memastikan tiada jangkitan air kencing yang juga boleh mengakibatkan kesakitan yang sama walaupun lazimnya ia lebih kepada sakit bahagian ari-ari.
Selain tanda di atas, anda juga perlu ke hospital jika mengalami keluar air ketuban, pergerakan bayi menjadi kurang kerap, keluar darah atau apa saja masalah yang dialami untuk kepastian doktor.
Waktu 40 minggu adalah dikira bermula hari pertama haid terakhir sehingga tarikh jangkaan bersalin.
Namun, 90 peratus wanita didapati sudah selamat bersalin sebelum tiba tarikh terbabit, sekitar 10 hari sebelum tarikh itu.
Bayi dikatakan cukup bulan apabila mencecah usia 38 minggu kandungan. Bayi pula dikatakan lebih hari jika masih belum dilahirkan selepas tarikh 40 minggu, jika melebihi 42 minggu pula dikatakan lebih masa.
Lazimnya bayi selamat jika lahir dalam tempoh 38 hingga 41 minggu, sebaliknya melebihi usia 42 minggu pula dikaitkan dengan risiko kepada bayi.
Membenarkan bayi di dalam kandungan melebihi usia 40 minggu memerlukan pengawasan pergerakan bayi, kandungan air ketuban, keadaan uri, aktiviti jantung dan seumpamanya bagi wanita yang tidak mempunyai masalah seperti darah tinggi, kencing manis atau rhesus negatif.
Pada masa sama, jika keadaan terbabit masih memuaskan, kandungan mungkin dibenarkan selama sekitar seminggu bagi memberi peluang jika anda didatangi sakit bersalin sendirinya tanpa perlu dipaksa bersalin (induksi).
nota kaki yana : skrg sgt sensitif ngan perut sendirik...sebab kekadang rase tak selesa...kdg2 rase sakit kt ari2....risau...di kedai perabot...kakak kedai perabot kater.."cam dah nak bersalin jee"....dpt sms dr adik "aku mimpi ko bersalin"...dok kat opis opismate kater "sakit ari2? tah2 nak bersalin kot"....ape pun....hopefully semuanyer dipermudahkan.insyallah
yana nyer bawah perut sgt GATAL skrg...ade org kater kene rambut baby....T_T..rekahan bumi perut di sane sini...huuhhu tak sexy dah! awwwww!
hujung minggu sudah yana dok berkampung kt kedai buku...sambil2 tgk2 buku yg elok tuk pembacaan...heheh then yana jumpe buku nie...isi kandungan yg bagus..lagi2 tuk persiapan kita nak menghadapi bersalin nie... ;) *kita berusaha ALLAH menentukan*
Sorry for this entry would be an emotional one, specially dedicated to one or two of my friends out there yang should I say POYO?? Over the past 2 years that I’ve been active in promoting breastfeeding among mummies, I’ve noted few groups of mummies whom I should say 100% will fail to breastfeed their child. (no offence to mummies who are unable to bf their children, this entry is SOLELY for mommies with the wrong attitudes) .. sigh..
So inilah golongan2 yg akan gagal fully breastfeed anaknya itu..jika anda terasa well what can I do?hahaha
1.they keep asking the same questions over and over again.. up to the extent when we give answers, they STILL DO NOT BELIEVE AND ASK FEW MORE TIMES. It’s really irritating when you already wrote a long note on breastfeeding and all about it, and they ask questions again and again. It’s either they don’t read the notes or they just want to ask.. saja2 nak berborak.. it’s okay of saja2 nak berborak.. so tunggu lah my reply, ni trus komen kt pic/status suh check inbox ASAP. And guess what, before ni ms aku msg Tanya khabar, how’s breastfeeding going, diorng tak penah bother nak reply.., BILA KAU ADE MASALAH AND NAK FREE MEDICAL CONSULTATION BARU TERHEGEH2 CARI AKU.. I’m a human being too, so please at least sensitive with the well being/busy life of me. And yes, we were friends in school, tp kau cari aku hanya bila anak sakit/masalah bf? N paksa2 suh reply msg cepat2?? What should I say? You can go to hell, thank you very much
2. asking about the pumps all over again and again.. of course la aku bias ngan medela freestyle and swing, as I have been using them before and I think the pumps are the best, especially the freestyle. Stop asking me questions like this ‘ pump pureen ok tak??’ hahaha of course you definitely know my answer .. and bila aku jwb jwpn ikhlas( dh pnah tgk nurse/kerani guna pump2 manual) emosional plak kan..pastu keep blaming me for promoting the EXPENSIVE pumps.. yes, it’s expensive but a good investment.. alah membeli menang memakai.. tanak beli takpela, takyah la nak sound2 aku
3. mommies yang hangat hangat tahi ayam. That’s the correct term for them. Bersemangat over nak mampus, last2 gagal.. well mmg patut kita bersemngat utk fully bf anak kita, but it comes with a price. Ni poyo2 bersemangat giler, tp last2 bagi formula milk, sbb MALAS.. MALAS adalah penyakit paling bahaya okay.. (a reminder to myself too).. then bagi alas an mcm2- baby nangis.. mmgla baby nangis, kalau die ckp sume terperanjat kot hahaha.. and this kind of people will ask you SO MANY QUESTIONS and in the end will say things like this ‘alaa tanak la beli pump elok2 nnt tak dpt bf anak mcmana? Nak cari semangat dulu baru nak beli.. or susah la nak basuh2 parts pumps tu.. AKU MAMPU JE NAK BELI PUMP, BILA2 MASA SKANG NI PUN BOLEH BELI JUST TAKUT TAK GUNA JE NANTI’ hahah I feel like slapping you hard!!seriously :p it’s okay if you work leisurely or you’re a housewife, tp kalau kau keje and busy, sure takleh lepas fully bf 4 bulan pun..well guess what? I can guarantee you that you will fail to breastfeed your baby.. and kenapa tertekan ngan peer pressure? Everyone using freestyle, doesn’t mean you have to own one too , especially if you cannot afford it.dang!! kantoi la tu nak berlagak konon byk duit, arghh geramnyaa.. mindset dah terkebelakang and ketinggalan mcmtu memang akan gagal bf, you just wait and see…
4. sanggup beli baju mahal2, stroller mahal, car seat, cot beribu2.. but when it comes to breastpump,very stingy and calculative. Do you know that babies on fm, their kidney have to work 30 times extra to process all the toxins in the body? I cried when I had to stop breastfeeding my son.. in this part, husband also plays a major role, so many husbands are not supportive. But I have seen so many friends with very very supportive husband, they are the ones who will succeed in breastfeeding.. to those husbands, congratulations for supporting your wife to ensure that she’s giving the best to your child. . to husbands2 lain, sila jgn berkira, beli sport rim, games, iphone, galaxy tab, sume bole.. wife nak beli pump elok, trus brush off the subjects.. do the calculation yourself. If your wife uses a freestyle and fully breastfeed your baby, after 6 months dah balik modal freestyle tu..plus bole guna utk anak ke 2 sampai anak ke 6 haha.. the cost of newborn formula milk( the good ones) can reach up to rm 700 a month.. beli susu sebulan dah boleh dpt swing :p
5. Mummies who are ungrateful.. kita dah bagi diskaun, tp still nak lebih2..dah bagi betis nak peha lak.. kalau bole nak freestyle rm 900, swing rm 300 hahaha.. tu amal jariah namanya on my side, might as well I give them to you free of charge hihi.. I know they are expensive, there’s nothing wrong for using cheaper pumps, as long as you have the DETERMINATION to fully bf your baby and TIME of course esp if you’re using manual pumps. Byk je org fully bf anak tak payah pn pakai freestyle.. just for busy mommies, the chances of giving up early on bf is higher if the pumping session itself is stressing and time consuming ..
6.asking me questions that I will never have the answer.. for example ‘ dr saya dgr org ckp lepas bersalin kulit jadi licin..kenapa kulit saya takpun? Jerawat makin byk’ so I answered ‘ sbb hormone you tak stable, sbbtu laa jerawat ade’ (ok the question is still acceptable) then ‘ abistu saya nak pakai pencuci muka apa?’ hahaha mana aku tau, kulit manusia tak sama.. you have to find the right skin products for you, it might be Johnson Johnson, safi rania, Clinique or SKII hahaha.. soklan lain ‘ dr mcmana saya nak buat bila anak saya menangis?? Saya nak buat kerja pun susah’ hahah ni lagik satu, u have to know your own child, how can I give answers to such questions? This one is the best? ‘dr ade tak ubat utk kuruskan badan and kempiskan perut buncit??’ hahahahaha…my answer ‘KALAU ADA SAYA DAH MAKAN DULU DAH UBAT TU AND DAH SLIM MELIM DAH’ hahahaha
7.asking my opinions ( on a lot of things) and when i give my suggestions, start to give excuse 'ITU SUSAH, INI SUSAH,SUSAHLA NAK BUAT MCMTU' pendek kata semua susah.. guess what? you will HATE to do things when u plant the idea in your mind that they are difficult :p siapa suka buat soalan addmath yg susah? siapa suka bersusah2 breastfeeding? sama je.. so kalau awal2 lg dh ckp susah, dh letak kat minda ckp nnt SUSAH GILER mmg la akan susah jadinya..last2 fm ,lg senang bancuh hehee
So to this mommies out there, im sorry if I hurt your feelings in any way. This is just my hormonal imbalance period thingy and the fact that IT IS TOO MUCH FOR ME, so stop asking me stupid question for you are professionals AND YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER..TANYA BYK2 PUN TAK GUNA, BIKIN ORG HANGEN JE.
And for those who feel I add more peer pressure to you (especially the freestyle thingy), im sorry but my intention is just to share all the good things/gadgets with all of you :p
To all my friends, please don’t be afraid or hesitate to ask me questions..kang baca entry ni sume jadi tak berani lak nk tanye2 lak hehehe
That’s all. Now I feel better :P
say YES to breastfeeding :)
credited to : Dr. Zaahirah Mohammad
nota kaki yana : nota ini sgt membuka mata!! ;)..Ya Allah limpahi lah ku dengan rezeki mu! berikan la ku semangat dan kekuatan untuk menempuhi proses kelahiran serta penyusuan dan membesarkan anak ku ini. Amin